Dating a danish man
Overall, Danes are more concerned with the greater good of the group than about their own individual accomplishments.
Everything works like a well-oiled machine in Denmark because they observe the rules.
There are many reasons why people start dating or looking for someone to be together with, and for me, it was that I was lonely and tired of being single. As a woman from Korea in her early/mid-thirties, it was quite difficult to find Korean here and I am not so close-minded to mind someone from different cultures or countries. A next step naturally becomes finding non-Korean guys in storkøbenhavn, a.k.a. (My sort-of-ex-bf, who hated being Danish and wanted to remain as a global or an international citizen, once said, “Are we as shallow as coconut you mean? No.) Anyway the point was that they are covered with the hard shells and I didn’t know where to meet them also!
As I mentioned above, I once had a sort-of-bf before who hated Denmark and wanted to leave the country ASAP.
Be persistent and consistent by having a plan in place for meeting quality men. If they aren't a romantic interest, consider making them your friend.
And instead of quitting when a date goes bad, chalk it up as being one more man closer to the real man you are looking for.
Most women treat men as if they were women in men's bodies.
However my colleagues said that it’s not so classy and that’s not the way they start relationship, saying that one-night stand ends up being one-night-stand in most of the cases from their experiences.
I am not saying those blogs or articles are wrong, but this story was from Danes and it was different! It’s an online dating site for Danes and Swedes or people living in those two countries and people should have college degrees or higher to join the site. People mostly write in Danish, but lucky me, Google translate works pretty well with Danish-English translation and I rarely get people wrong from that, though get a bit puzzled sometimes.
This a six months old post from a blog that I wanted to continue but failed to do so. Since I didn’t have any idea how to start dating with Danes!
🙂 Since I am freshly starting again in this blog, I want to move two posts from that. ———————————————- Since I moved to Denmark, just like any other expats living in Denmark, I have been struggling to make Danish friends here and ending up with very limited numbers of expat friends who sometimes leave the country in no time. Danish people are referred weird sometimes to non-Danish expats. Though there are tons of people loving Denmark and living here, there are other fair share of expats struggling to keep up their life here, especially with making local friends. They have a very hard shell around them which is so hard to break in, but once you reach the inside, they have such a soft core, which is basically liquid!